My Own Lament

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 Why Oh Lord have You given and then taken away?

My heart turns to dust and crumbles.

My mind fills with questions with no answers.

My soul longs for love that is unreachable.

Your strong hands hold me while my legs give out from under me.

My womb is empty.

I feel You in the quiet, but my tears will not cease.

You hear me cry out, yet my heart remains broken.

Peace  surrounds me, yet pain fills me.

Hold me together Lord.

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